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  In 2005 Stephanie Tolan created a presentation for what   was then the Counseling and Guidance Division of the National Association for   Gifted Children, to give adults (counselors, teachers, parents) working with   gifted children a method of empowering children (and themselves) to cope with   the difficult educational and life experiences they so often encounter. She   called the method Story Principle, and titled the presentation, “Change Your   Story, Change Your Life.”  A shorter   version was printed in Gifted Education   Communicator and is available below. As Tolan began speaking about Story Principle to other   audiences—to writers, librarians and teachers outside the field of gifted   education—she was continually asked to expand on the idea and to provide   practical ways to use Story Principle in daily life.  She decided to take on that project.  The result was the writing of a book also   titled Change Your Story, Change Your   Life, and the creation of www.StoryHealer.com, where Story Principle is introduced, an excerpt can be   read or downloaded, and examples are given of “Stories That Work,” from people   who have begun putting the principle to work in their lives.  In addition, the book can be downloaded in   its entirety as a free PDF file under a Creative Commons license.  
    Out of Sync, Essays in GiftednessStephanie S. Tolan set out as a concerned mother to help her highly gifted son have a school experience that matched his intellectual ability and pace of learning. In the process, she became an advocate for gifted children and, as a founding member of the Columbus Group, played a major part in reshaping thinking about giftedness itself.
    Her essay "Is It a Cheetah?" is justly renowned for its power and worldwide influence. Other essays deal with spirituality, the problem of pain, self-esteem and the gifted adult, imagination, and intuition. Here, collected for the first time, are her essays and talks that are now part of the fabric of the most advanced thinking about gifted people.An Open Letter to Parents, Teachers and Others: From Parents of an Exceptionally Gifted ChildGuiding the Gifted Child Chapter 13, which I co-wrote with James Webb and Elizabeth Meckstroth in 1982
Change Your Story, Change Your LifeNational Association of Gifted Children (NAGC) conference presentation, 
	November 2005
Bibliography 
  of Books about Gifted and Highly Gifted Children2002.
Guiding the Gifted ChildGifted Psychology Publishing Co., 1982 -- co-author.
The Problem of PainRevised, originally published in the
  	Gifted 
  Education Communicator (California Association for the Gifted), Volume 31, 
  No. 4, Fall 2000.
Spirituality and the Highly Gifted AdolescentHighly Gifted Children, Spring, 2000.
Self-Knowledge, 
  Self-Esteem and the Gifted AdultAdvanced Development Journal, 1999.
You Can't Do It WrongWritten for the parents of the Davidson 
  Young Scholars Pilot Group June, 1999.
Dabrowski's 
  Over-excitabilities: A Layman's ExplanationFebruary, 1999.
Giftedness - Nature or NurtureOAGC Review, January 1988.
Phoning HomeOAGC Review, Spring 1997.
Is it a Cheetah?Highly Gifted Child, Spring, 1997 (Reprinted in OAGC Newsletter, Fall,
    1996).
Beginning BrillianceChapter 11 in The Young Gifted Child: Potential and
    Promise, Joan Smutny, editor, Hampton Press, Inc., 1996.
Discovering the Gifted Ex-Child Roeper Review, August 1994. (Reprinted in Journal of Advanced Development,
    1996).
Response to the Federal Report on Gifted Education	Roeper Review, June/July 1994.
Giftedness as Asynchronous DevelopmentTip Network News, Spring 1994.
Ridi PagliaccioThe Day My Father Died: Women Share Their Stories of Love, Loss, and Life, Running Press 1994.
Psychomotor Overexcitability: An Expanded Perspective Journal of Advanced Development, 1994.
Parents vs. TheoristsRoeper Review, August 1992.
Sex and the 
  Highly Gifted AdolescentHighly Gifted Children, Spring 1992.
Only a ParentUnderstanding Our Gifted, Jan-Feb. 1992.
School Reform, or How to Make Democracy a Dirty WordHighly Gifted Children, Fall 1991, Spring 1992.
Kids, Books and World Peace USIBBY Newsletter, Fall 1991.
Curiosity CancelledThe Bookmark, New York State Libraries, Fall, 1990.
Helping Your Highly Gifted ChildERIC Flyer File on Gifted Students, 1990.
Eventually, There’s CollegeHighly Gifted Children, Spring, 1990.
From Production to Nurturing, Hollingworth and Parental Perspectives TodayRoeper Review, March 1990.
Special Problems of the Highly Gifted Understanding Our Gifted, May 1989.
The Reading Room(regular column) Understanding Our Gifted, 1988-1995.
Happily Ever AfterThe New Advocate, December 1988.
Parents and 'Professionals', A Question of PrioritiesRoeper Review, February 1987.
A Writer's ResponseHorn Book, May/June 1986.
Stuck in Another Dimension:
    The Exceptionally Gifted Child in SchoolGifted Child Today, Nov./Dec. 1985.
Moral ImperativesThe Advocate, Spring,1985
Stop Accepting, Start Demanding! The Gifted Child Monthly, January 1985.
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